4. Think Win-Win
Teens can learn to
foster the belief that it’s possible to create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every
relationship. This habit encourages the idea
that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually
beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of
others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is
a belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step
on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you
want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed
as well. Win-Win is abundant. It’s not belief that there’s [lent of success to
go around. It’s not either you or me, It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s
an all-you-can-eat buffet.
Win-Win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win is the good feelings it bring on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-Win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win is the good feelings it bring on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-Win will fill your heart with happy and serene thought. It
will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
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